My son called the other night to ask for advice about something his girlfriend, and he went thru earlier in the day. I didn’t have anything to say except “did you express your concerns with her”? No. “Well, maybe, you should”. And we left it at that. Most often than not, we repeat the same scenario or conversation in our heads but not with the person we should be speaking with.
The following day, it dawned on me what was going on with them: The Universal Law of Reflection.